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By independently, I mean not with the other effects, such as affectlessness, as I clarify in the subsequent clause, meaning not as a package, meaning that that aspect of clear seeing arising without and independently of other aspects of development, meaning that by looking into things happening on their own and understanding that, feelings didn't vanish also, meaning that realizing that things happen on their own occurred without and thus independent of feeling vanishing. I didn't mean anything like not dependent in some way as to apply in some grand scheme or cosmology, such as Dependent Origination, as you perhaps read it, but meaning that one could, by way of example, realize that things happen on their own, without doing whatever causes certain other transformations of the way that causal system functions.
As to "Richard's AF", I actually prefer Tarin, Trent, Jill and Steph's apparent attainments regardless of anything related or having to do with this Richard or what they call it, as I see the value in what they have done and believe it can benefit my own practice and round out my own development: what is wrong with that? The method is interesting and fun, the focus on paying attention to feelings hardly contradicts anything sane and reasonable. The problem here is what?
As to "lack of agency", this is a way of speaking using that specific term has worked across numerous situations and with psychological academics and practitioners alike for years with no problems in people understanding what I meant by it and no one has raised the particular objection to the term that you have, but try just throwing out that word, as it is clearly not helping at all, and looking at the numerous synonyms and explanations I use for it, and see if that helps. This is no-self at its core, a fundamental concept that applies to all things at all times, all mind states, all emotions, all actions, all happenings, all manifestations, all qualities, all investigations, all interests, all questions, all "personal" qualities, etc. This is a really, really important point.
As to tautomerism, I believe that providing numerous synonyms and other explanations is not tautomerism as I understand it, but clarification, or that is how it was intended.
That things happen on their own (meaning reality does its complex, interdependent, causal, natural thing), and that includes everything, including investigation, etc., is not just something I made up but is actually the way thing happen regardless even of level of understanding, always have. This is actually oddly easy to see for many objects, thoughts, intentions, happenings, just somewhat tricky to see for a few, seemingly closer to home categories, though with time and practice those can be known this way also.
As to arrogance, numerous people have mentioned this impression of me and this is no secret, and it coincides with my own impression some of the time as well, so why not be honest about this? I don't really see the problem here. I have had numerous teachers who appeared to many and likely themselves as arrogant, but I learned a lot from them and am grateful to have been able to learn something from them, at least. If that doesn't work for you, there are a large number of people out there that the term really wouldn't fit well with at all, and perhaps they would be a better match for whatever you are looking for.
As to my benefitting from this exchange in the way you seem to wish me to, I am not sure this is the most effective way for this to occur, as I indicated, but if this fits with your vision of an attempt to help, I can run with it as best I can.
As to myself being off limits, there are tons of criticism of me on the DhO and other places on the web, and I have never deleted or censored any of it. You weren't here for the First Great DhO Schism, I see, and if you are in a criticize Daniel mood, perhaps you can take comfort from reading some threads from that contentious period early in the DhO history.
As to my criticism of the mindfulness community, I could name numerous specific individuals, practice groups, publications, etc, but that would just be petty, it would seem, and serve no useful purpose that I can think of. I still think my critiques of them shortchanging people who, given better information, would themselves do better, have some validity.
As to my critiques of "nouveau Tibetans", this being a similar pattern to "nouveau riche" in meaning, but ironically without the things that would actually make them "riche" in spiritual terms, I do know a lot of people who suddenly adopted Tibetan trappings of language, costume, doctrine, theory and culture and suddenly found themselves feeling like they were now empowered to critique people who had practices that far exceeded their wildest dreams but they a) had no idea that such practice was even possible, and b) didn't see the stunning irony of them having been given an opening into a great and powerful set of Tibetan techniques but instead just bought into the arrogance of their newly adopted religion without learning to practice them at all, thus converting their very potentially freeing and enlightening tradition into just another set of golden handcuffs that they wanted to attack people with, which is both tragic and common and worthy of critique, or at least it seems to so to me. Actually, given your marked interest in critiquing me, it is interesting you don't also see that your fine analysis and strong set of ideals of how things should be might just as easily be applied to those situations and come to conclusions similar to the ones I come to.
As to this exchange, where is all of this bitterness coming from? Your comments have a lot of force behind them, it seems. I don't mean to diffuse or deflect by questioning, but I think something in this effect is worth addressing, as it seems potent, and is bringing in all sorts of seemingly stored up resentments and feelings about all sorts of things that weren't even addressed in this thread, such as the part about my Brown talks. I am imperfect from numerous points of view, and you have your own set of very strong ideals of how I should be and what I am looking for and seem to feel that what I really needed and meant by saying I was arrogant was for you to lay into that with all the force you could muster.
Just to clarify: I wasn't asking for that in any obvious way that I was aware of, though, if this truly is all well- and kindly-meant, then my thanks for your compassionate and diligent attempts at my personal reform, and, to clarify for the benefit of not being able to see and hear me say it, I don't mean to have any satyrical or mocking tone in that thanks at all.
To be realistic, while I can appreciate the sentiment that I must be freed from those admittedly less-than-optimal personality quirks by your sharp and cutting intellect, I must admit that the chances of your success are less would be the case in an ideal world, and this is unfortunate.
Numerous others have already attempted the same, and, while some slight positive modifications have slowly happened over time, it seems to be a gradual maturation and wearing-away process, just to manage your expectations of success based on previous outcomes, and to presume that the process would come to some perfect conclusion before my inevitable demise is dubious.
Further, as to method, and not necessarily speaking for anyone else, I personally tend to respond better to methods that have less of a bite and bit more of a perceived smile, just for future reference, and this is something that I myself should also try to remember likely applies to others for my own future exchanges, though you are still welcome here to try this chosen method and see if you have better success than anticipated, as my knowledge of the specifics conditionality in its massive breath and complexity is grossly suboptimal also, and I may underestimate its efficacy based on my own preconceptions.
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